Monday, October 31, 2011

Angry Bird Halloween Photo Contest

I was just made aware of an ANGRY BIRD HALLOWEEN PHOTO CONTEST!! EEEEK!!

As you've probably seen before, I was an angry bird for Halloween.




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The Radical Experiment


side note: This picture is a running joke with my husband and our friend, T, that it is our "band" picture. It reminds of us a band picture in which the lead singer is in the front, with the members behind them. Hah. It was actually taken at the hospital when we were visiting my cousin Kristy back in 2009.


side note 2: I had really wanted to get this posted yesterday after church when stuff was still fresh on my mind (horrible memory here) BUT after working an 11 hour shift, I was done. I just wanted to come home, watch Walking Dead with the hubs, and go to sleep. One blessing? I had Jury Duty set for today, BUT, when I called over the weekend, they said my # was EXCUSED. YESSSSS!!! I really wasn't looking forward to that!

As I've mentioned a few times over the last two months, my young adults class at church is in the process of working through Radical by David Platt. What an eye opener. Today we went over chapter 8 which I found quite interesting as well.

Basically, it was going into depth a little more about what Jesus asked of his Disciples and just how serious his commands were and are. He clearly commands that following him involves risking the safety, security, and satisfaction we have found in this world. 'Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it' - Matthew 10:39. The book then gave an example of a faith family that went to Southern Africa to provide medical clinics to various impoverished communities. Upon arrival one of their vehicles was hijacked. The driver was pistol whipped and thrown into the trunk. By God's grace no one was hurt but the team knew the great risk the trip involved. They would be working with countless patients with HIV. They discussed all the precautions they needed to take but knew there was no guarantee one wouldn't get stuck on accident with a used needle. BUT, just a few days into the trip it happened. One of the women from their faith team was struck with a needle that had been used on an HIV infected woman. As if that weren't enough, a couple of hours later, it happened to a second team member. Both members knew the gravity of this, and do you want to know what they said? "Were just glad it happened to us and no one else." WOW. The selflessness.

Jesus tells the Disciples 'I am sending you out like sheep among wolves.' - Matthew 10:16. Basically he says 'I am sending you to dangerous places, where you will find yourself in the middle of evil, vicious people. And you will be there by my design.' We don't think like this today, our thinking is more a long the lines of 'If it's dangerous, God must not be in it. It it's risky, it it's unsafe, if it's costly, it must not be God's will.' We also think that if we become more like Jesus the world will love us, when it fact it's quite the opposite. Why? Because the world hated Jesus. 

Jesus asks that we love God above all else. This is hard to fathom nowadays. It's a hard pill to swallow when it comes down to putting Jesus first, over your family. But, the fact of the matter is, it's what is asked of us when we give ourselves completely to God. My friend Erin recently posted a powerful story that I have read before and want to share with you:

***

The church's pastor slowly stood up, walked over to the pulpit, and before he gave his sermon for the evening, he briefly introduced a guest minister who was in the service that evening.


In the introduction, the pastor told the congregation that the guest minister was one of his dearest childhood friends, and that he wanted him to have a few moments to greet the church and share whatever he felt would be appropriate for the service...


With that, an elderly man stepped up to the pulpit and began to speak...


A father, his son, and a friend of his son were sailing off the Pacific coast, he began.


When a fast approaching storm blocked any attempt to get back to shore. The waves were so high, that even though the father was an experienced sailor, he could not keep the boat upright, and the three were swept into the ocean as the boat capsized.


The old man hesitated for a moment, making eye contact with two teenagers who were, for the first time since the service began, looking somewhat interested in the story. The aged minister continued with his story...


Grabbing a rescue line, the father had to make the most excruciating decision of his life:
To which boy would he throw
the other end of the life line.
He only had seconds to make the decision. The father knew that his son was a Christian and he also knew that his son's friend was not.


The agony of this decision could not be matched by the torrent of waves.


As the father yelled out, 'I love you, son!' He threw out the life line to his son's friend. By the time the father had pulled the friend back to the capsized boat, his son had disappeared beneath the raging swells into the black of night.


By this time, the two teenagers were sitting up straight in the pew, anxiously waiting for the next words to come out of the old minister's mouth.


The father, he continued, knew his son would step into eternity with Jesus and he could not bear the thought of his son's friend stepping into an eternity without Jesus.
Therefore, he sacrificed his son to save his son's friend.


How great is the love of God that he should do the same for us. Our heavenly Father sacrificed his only begotten son that we could be saved. I urge you to accept His offer and take a hold of the life line He is throwing out to you in this service.


With that, the old man turned and sat back down in his chair as silence filled the room. Within minutes after the service ended, the two teenagers were at the old man's side.


That was a nice story, one said politely, but I don't think it was very realistic for a father to give up his only son's life in hopes that the other boy would become a Christian.


Well, you've got a point there, the old man replied.


Glancing down at his worn Bible, a big smile broadened his narrow face. He once again looked up at the boys and said, It sure isn't very realistic, is it? But, I'm standing here today to tell you that story gives me a glimpse of what it must have been like for God to give up his son for me.


You see...
I was that father.
Your pastor is my son's friend.

***

It was stated that the closer you become to God, the harder things become for you many times. This is true in that Satan does not want us building a closer relationship with God, and in that, if he sees it happening, he will do his best to detour it. This may (and often time does) mean more trials and tribulations for you. It's like the old saying 'when it rains it pours' BUT, the beauty of it all is, if you have God on your side. It doesn't matter. It will all work out according to his will.


To everyone wanting a safe, untroubled, comfortable life free from danger, stay away from Jesus. The danger in our life will always increase in proportion to the depth of our relationship with Jesus. Maybe this is why we sit back and settle for a casual relationship with Christ and routine religion in the church. It's safe there, and the world likes us there.

My husband said it best in class this morning. If you are at church and you ask a fellow brother or sister "Hey! How's it going?" and they reply with "Ah, man, it's perfect. Life is great! NO PROBLEMS HERE!" one may wonder exactly how close they are to God at that time because it is not easy, it is not perfect, and the more you are sharing the word, and living for God, the harder it gets at times. The world may hate you, some people you know and love may argue with you and not support you, BUT, God loves you.

'Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul, Rather be afraid of the One who can destroy both the soul and body in hell'  -- Matthew 10:28. Basically what Jesus is saying here is 'Don't be afraid of people, the worst they can do is kill you. God is the ultimate judge. Fear him.'

Matthew 10 teaches so much. The key we have to learn is how to take back our faith from the American dream. Instead of focusing on worldly desires and pleasures, we need to focus our lives on another world -- a heavenly world, with eternal treasure that will never spoil or fade.

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose" -- Jim Elliot

Chapter 8 was the last chapter in Radical. Then they have some suggestions for partaking in the Radical Experiment which you can do over a year.

I am already doing some. Here they are:

1. Pray for the entire world; think of all the areas that are persecuted just for believing.
2. read through the entire Word.  -- I have not done this yet.
3. sacrifice your money for a specific purpose.
4. spend your time in another context.
5. commit your life to a multiplying community.

I have never, ever read through the entire Bible. In fact, as a newly saved (2008) young adult, there is a lot that I have yet to read. My goal for 2012 is to read through the entire Bible in one year. I know there are plenty of one year programs to help you read through the Bible and that's exactly what I plan to do. BUT, I was wondering, would anyone else like to join me on this challenge? I was thinking about doing a link up, maybe once a week, or once a month, in which we could summarize what we've read and learned during that time of study? Please let me know if you might be interested. Just leave a comment below letting me know if you are interested, and I'd contact you from there. We'd start on January 1st, 2012.

Friday, October 28, 2011

DIY Angry Bird Halloween Costume & DIY Hair

I have an annual Halloween Bonfire every year, and this year I did not want to spend a ton of money on a costume. Half the costumes out there are $50+ and barely cover ANYTHING. SO, I decided to wing it this year.



I WAS AN ANGRY BIRD!!!!

I had quite a few compliments on the costume and even a friend asking if she could steal the idea. BY ALL MEANS! Go for it. :) It was fun, and best of all, cheap. 

MATERIALS(for my entire costume):
* Angry Bird shirt --- walmart $7.50
* Tulle in colors of your choice, I used black and red. Use coupons at craft stores to get a good deal
* Black Tights --- Walmart $5
* Red Head Band --- already had it
* Red Feathers --- bought a multicolored bag at Joanne's
* Red Flip Flops --- Old Navy $2.50
*** these are all the items *I* used. Of course you could totally change it up. ***

My good friend Sara had the brilliant idea to make a tutu after she saw the easy DIY tutorial on Mammalicious Finds. The tutu really made the costume. Fulled out, it resembled birds feathers all fluffed out.

Perfect!


getting measured for the tutu

hello, Sara Scissorhands


She also added feathers to a sparkly red headband that I already owned AND she made me feather earrings. Isn't she amazing? 



So yeah, the possibilities are endless..... and oh so CUTE!


While we are on the topic of things rad and red, I DYED MY HAIR YESTERDAY! This is not a big deal in that I dyed it, that happens quite frequently. It IS a big deal because I did it myself. Usually my stylist does it. BUT, with this bright red I have in it, it fades way to quick to be going back every other week. SO, I bought a box of SPLAT (recommended by a friend) and said "Here goes nothing!!"


BUT, overall? Success... and I saved a ton of money!

LOTS of red, IF I pull it a certain way

My husband said I looked like a Simpsons character here. LOL

All done :)

I am also participating in a BLOG HOP this weekend. Sounds fun, right? IT IS!



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Be sure to check out the hosts(by clicking the above button) and say hello! and for those of you on your first visit to my blog, via the blog hop, My name is Heather...I am a twenty-something Christian woman living in sunny ol' Florida. I blog about everyday adventures in my newlywed life :) We are the proud parents to two precious furbaby dogs. My passion truly is helping others. I want to be the change I want to see in the world. I hope you'll take a moment and leave me a comment to say hello, so I can come check your blog out as well!

Goodness... I struggled to find time to get this post up today! Ever feel like you have a million and one things to do and you just can't find time to do it? Yup, I know, we all have. That was me today. I have a ton I want to post about this weekend, I just don't know how timing will play out. My husband and I are helping a friend move (from a second story apartment to a duplex) tomorrow so I am sure that will keep us quite busy, and then our goal is to have a date night if we aren't completely pooped from the move!

Remember: Be kind to EVERYONE you meet, you never know what they are going through behind their smile. 

Have a Blessed weekend, my friends. ♥


Thursday, October 27, 2011

Thankful Thursday V2.4

Well, HELLO THURSDAY! And, HELLO FRIENDS!







It's that time again.... where I just take a few moments to share what I am thankful for this week. They can be something serious, or something as simple as a tuna sandwich. BUT, I feel its so important to take time to really look at our blessings, and be thankful. I invite you to link up with me weekly as I'd enjoy reading your thankful posts as well. Now, I understand you may not have time to do a thankful post today, so, I leave the linky open for an entire week.... Feel free to link up with me anytime between now and next Wednesday.

This week I am

 .photo credit.

for:


My Fitness Pal - I know this app has been around for awhile now, but, I just started using it about 10 days ago and I love it. It's so simple. I've never calculated calories myself, but now it's as easy as typing in what I eat, and BAM, done for me. I've lost 1.5lbs so far. YAY! (side note: I am NOT trying to lose weight just to lose weight. I am completely happy with how I look. It's necessary for me to get extra weight off my spine to help my back feel better. Spondylolisthesis is no fun!

♥ With that being said, I feel it necessary to just be thankful for the back that I DO have. I may have issues that cause me discomfort and pain, but the fact of the matter is, for now, I am able to do most things that I want to. Well, I'd love to be able to ride roller coasters and not worry about hurting myself when I pick up a toddler, BUT, for the most part, my quality of life is still wonderful! I know that somewhere out there, there is someone who can't do all the things they'd like to do because of a back problem.

♥ Family Dinners - Last Friday night my husband, myself, and my Dad went over to my husbands parents house for dinner. We literally live within a 3 minute drive from each other but our schedules often get so busy with everyone working different schedules that we don't see each other for a month at a time.

The Walking Dead TV show on AMC. I watched all of season 1 after it 1st aired with one of my friends. Now I am watching season 2 as it happens with my husband. We recently watched all of season 1 together, and are now caught up with season two. I think I know why I like to wait until a season is over to catch it, I get impatient waiting for the next episode. EEK!


♥  My husband's tuna sandwiches. That may sound crazy, but oh my goodness. They are SO good. He spices them up. When I've made tuna in the past it was just tuna + mayo and BAM! He does tuna + mayo + a bit of mustard + lemon pepper + some green olives and WOW! It all goes so good together. Mmm. My taste buds rejoice! He made me a tuna sandwich for work this week :)

♥ Good Walking Weather - I'm sure I've said it before, but I must say it again. When Florida gets the cooler temps, it's sooo amazing! I love being able to walk later in the day without melting!

♥ What we've raised so far on Kidney for Kristy. Granted, we need $5000. BUT, every little bit helps, and Kristy is getting closer to getting on that transplant list. It IS scary because she originally needed the money by October 31st and as of right now, it does not look like she will make it BUT we are so hopeful that they will grant an extension and still go ahead and put her on the transplant waiting list since she may be there for awhile. After all, we have been busting booty to raise the money via car washes, yard sales, and bake sales, why WOULDN'T they offer an extension? We are showing that we are trying! It's documented everywhere. Please be in prayer over this situation. It would be much appreciated.



Medical Fundraising Made Simple






Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Wonder Wednesday, 4paws4love, and birthday blessings

Does your brain ever take you on a wild ride of questions? Who am I kidding, what kind of question is that? I already know the answer, yes.

That's what happened to me as I drove home from work (late - got held up with a national job) last night. Here's a few of the thoughts that I pondered:

♥ Commuting. It was after midnight and as I drove over a main interstate, there were still tons of cars on the road. I wondered where they were all going. Did some of them work late like me? Were some of them heading home? Were some of them leaving or returning home from a vacation? Were some of them moving? I will never know.

♥ Love Bugs Where the heck do they go in their off season? And if they all die, then how the heck do they pop back up during love bug season? If you don't know what a love bug is, consider yourself lucky. Their name is very deceiving.

♥ Technology. Did you know that billions of people don't have access to the internet? and likely even TV's. They have no clue who Steve Jobs was, or what apple is. Can you believe that? These same people live on less than two dollars a day. Yup, you read that right. If you want to learn more, read my post how much is enough?  So many people (myself included) take this for granted on a daily basis. Be thankful my friends. We are blessed beyond measure.

♥ How on earth did I get by each day before I came to know Christ in 2008? I often wonder this, and I honestly have no answer. I was self sufficient, miserable and drowning in my own sins. I was an overall unhappy person. Even when I couldn't see it myself. The change I felt in my heart immediately in April of 2008 is indescribable. I have my friend Ty to thank for inviting me to church, and my ultimate decision to accept Christ as my Lord and Savior. Thank you Jesus! ♥

Those are just a few thoughts wandering around in my head on this beautiful Wednesday.

Oh!

Remember this little guy?!


I received a text on Saturday with an update on the kitten I rescued back in August. Please check out my pet blog, 4Paws4Love to read his wonderful update. :)

And I can't forget, today is the 24th birthday of my roommate, maid of honor, and one of my very best friends. I am so thankful to have her as a sister in Christ.

 
Happy Birthday Ashley. I love you! <3



Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Weekend Wrap Up & Tuesdays deals

Hi Friends! This week is going by fast. I almost couldn't find time today to get this blog up, but I figured a weekend wrap up on Wednesday was going to be a little late. That's half way through the week, and on to the NEXT weekend! So, here I am, typing up a storm. Hopefully there won't be too many mistakes that I miss.


 Anyways, as always, my weekend kind of consists of Thursday on since Thursday is my first day off. Thursday was a pretty packed day as I had a physical therapy appointment (2nd to last) AND a massage. I try to get a 30 minute massage every other week as it helps my back a great deal. Oh, the joys of spondylolisthesis. Afterwards, I met up with my friend Sara for a bit of crafting at her parents house. Actually, it was more so her crafting, and me just hanging. I didn't have time or money to buy supplies to work on any projects this week. While I was there her brother (and friend of mine) came by to take a look at my car and see if he could change my alternator belt for me. He says he can! YAY! Though he says even though the dealer said I need a new one ASAP, that mine looks fine and it's no rush. He'd only be changing it because i'm at 116k miles and it's about that time. Afterwards I met up with another friend and made a book store trip. He was looking for a book on learning Swahili as he wants to take a missions trip to Africa next year. I ran over to Crispers and enjoyed a hot bowl of kickin' crab chowder soup. DELISH! It was about 50 degrees out and I was still in work out shorts (from earlier in the day when the SUN was out) and sitting outside people watching and chowing down. I definitely got a few stares. LOL. When I finally made it to the bookstore I saw a book that I knew I had to have.


I am such an animal lover and just flipping through the pages of this cute book brought my heart joy. So I paid the $13 for it (yes! $13). BUT, it brings a smile to my face every time I pick it up! Sadly, my friend did not find the book HE was looking for that we originally went there for.

Friday my husband and I met up with our realtor, were able to be "shown" two houses, and then we spent the rest of the day looking at houses on our own. Nothing really stood out to us and said "this is your home".  Thankfully, we are in no rush, and know what it will all happen in God's timing. His timing is always perfect. He knows our future house way before we could even dream of it. <3


Friday night we were able to enjoy a dinner at his parents house. We literally live within walking distance from each other yet sometimes a month can go by without seeing them due to everyone's busy schedule. We try hard to change that and make time. And Friday night was one of those days. My husband, my dad and I all arrived there at 430pm we had a tight schedule. Ryan's dad had to leave at 6:30pm for work BUT we enjoyed the time we had together.


Saturday was my annual Halloween Bonfire. Fun times are always had. I'm not much of a drinker, I don't drink to have fun. I have plenty of fun without the aid of a drink BUT I am a social drinker (though not to the point of being trashed) and I do occasionally host a bonfire at my house (usually Halloween & NYE). This year was no different. I made some bomb pops shots for everyone that wanted one as it's a signature drink of my husband's. I also had some finger foods ready (pizza and tots!) as well as Ashley made a smore pie (that I couldn't have). It took us over an hour to get the fire going. It did NOT want to participate with us! We finally got it up and burning and had a decent show rate of about 25 of our friends. It was a good night. We made sure everyone got home safe and sound. :)

DIY Angry Bird

Me & Sara

Finally got the fire going
Most of the girls

The Roomie, Sara, Gina & I
Em, Sara, Gina

<3 the hubs :)


Sunday was back to work for me. The weekend came and went entirely too fast (doesn't it usually?)

I also wanted to share with you a shopping trip I took this morning to our local Save-a-lot. I don't shop there on the norm, I am a Publix gal, but where there's a deal, there is a deal. And they had some pretty awesome 10 for $10's this week including Pillsbury Grand Biscuits (which were sold out by the time I got there).


I paid $23.52 for:

3 packs of angel soft toilet paper 4pk
Sazon Goya Seasoning
4 Banquet pot pies
3 packs of butterball turkey bacon
1 pack of hormel pepperoni
6 boxes of Betty Crocker seasoned mashed taters
2 avacodo's
a tomato saver (to store cut tomatoes in)
parkay sticks of butter
a jar of banana peppers
2 packs of banquet brown and serve sausage links
2 packs of banquet brown and serve sausage patties
banquet family size Salsbury steak and gravy



** note -- I am fully aware that some of the above is horrible, horrible for you. BUT, moderation my friends. I am most excited about the turkey bacon. Time to make some healthy omelets.

I hope you all are having a wonderfully blessed week thus far. Thought of the day?

Sometimes a change of self is needed more than a change of scenery.

 

Monday, October 24, 2011

What I was doing 365 days ago

I had plans to do a weekend recap today however timing is not allowing that, SO, instead, I figured I'd share with you what I was doing one year ago today. Today is a special day. It is the one year wedding anniversary of one of my very best friends. <3

Friendship is so so special. I consider myself incredibly blessed to not only be able to count the number of close friends I have on not one hand, but two. My girlfriends play such a BIG role in my life. I consider them so much more than just friends, they are family. My sisters from another mother. Haha. Anyways, October 24th 2010 I proudly stood up as Maid of Honor in my long time friend Sara's wedding. Sara has always been there for me. Like most friendships, we've had our fair share of ups and downs, but the important factor that holds us together is love and respect. We both understand that we have different opinions and beliefs, however, we can accept that. Today I will share with you three posts I did last year about her bachelorette party, wedding, and a post the day before.

Black Tie Affair - Mourning of a lost sister.  - original post 10-10-10

Tomorrow, Tomorrow - original post 10-23-10

My Best Friend's Wedding - original post  10-24-10


a picture S shared today on her FB today


Congratulations S & J :) 

Where did that year go?!

Oh, and on a TOTALLY unrelated note, as I was enjoying the glorious weather this morning, I decided to take a 3 mile walk. On that walk, as I got pee'd on by a BIRD! WHAT?! Yessss... as I was walking under  a light pole, I could see a crane of some time at the top... I was thinking in my head "you better not poop on me" well, I should have said pooped or pee'd because as he flew away there was definitely an abundance of liquid that fell. SO THANKFUL only a few tiny splashes hit me. Still, GROSS! I leave you with that my friends, have a blessed day :)



Thursday, October 20, 2011

Thankful Thursday V2.3






In every thing give thanks; for this is the will of  God in Christ Jesus concerning you. -- 1 Thessalonians 5:18

This week I am thankful for:

♥ My husband and I celebrated our Halfiversary (6 months of marriage). If you've read the blog this week, you are probably on over dose of my husband and I :) Photo's from the wedding to come on Friday. 

♥ Orlando visit. My step granny was in town from North Carolina and my aunt hosted a dinner at her house so we could all hang with C while she was here. This also meant that I got to see my cousin Kristy

Me, SGma, Kristy

♥ Two of my closest girlfriends came with us to Orlando. :) Family really is what you make it and I consider ALL of my friends family as well.
Me, Ash, Kristy, Em
♥ This past Saturday marked the 3 year anniversary of when my cousin, Kristy, became an open heart surgery survivor. Praise God! I blogged about what October 15th meant to her, on the 15th.

♥ Chico turned 5! Well, he is probably a bit older than that, BUT, I brought him home from the SPCA on October 18th, 2006. This sweet puppy has brought SO much joy to my life. I blogged about his birthday on my pet blog, 4Paws4Love


♥ that I have stuck to the no treat October thus far. I am 19 full days in and I have had no cookies, brownies, cake, pie, candy, etc. Now remember, I have not given up sugar completely so I still had a bit here and there when I sipped off of my husbands soda (BAD! I know) and in foods like yogurt that have sugar BUT I have no had any "treats". SO PROUD! Now, like 11 days to go. I can do this!


I'd love to hear what YOU are thankful for! Feel free to link up, the linky tool will be open from today through next Wednesday as I know life gets busy and you may not have time for a Thankful Thursday post BUT you may have time for a Thankful Tuesday, or Saturday, or whenever.





Sunday, October 16, 2011

Five Fall Goals

I was recently tagged by Miss Erin (who is such a beautiful soul!) to do a five fall goals post. If you have not checked her out before, head on over that way, she is guaranteed to bring a smile to your face.

I figured doing a post on five falls goals would be semi interesting for me as Florida doesn't really get a fall. We have summer, and a less hot summer. BUT, I am going to give this a shot. Hey, I can talk about stuff I WISH I could do right?


♥ Visit somewhere that actually HAS a fall. I'd lovelovelove to go visit somewhere that has a beautiful autumn/fall with multi colored leaves everywhere. I know finances won't allow at this time, BUT, a girl can dream, eh? Where would YOU recommend?

♥ Bonfires + Smores + Girlfriends. I admit, I have bonfires year round in Florida BUT there is just something SO MUCH BETTER about having a bonfire when the air gets just a bit chilly here.

Dates outdoors with my husband. Once the weather changes a bit in Florida it allows my husband and I to do more outdoorsy things such as find new parks and venture around. Hiking in 70/80 degree weather is SO much more pleasant than 90/100 degrees.
 both above pictures are of mini adventures we went on in 2009! 

Spend more time in the Bible and in prayer. I want to read the entire Bible. I don't have a time line here, it's just a goal to commit myself to more quiet time. I (like everyone else) often find myself lost in the hustle and bustle of every day life and that is not how it should be. I have to focus more on being still.... and listening.

♥ I am agreeing with Erin on her 5th goal. I want to give with a full heart. The holidays are actually the time of the year when most people ARE more giving than usual to those with need. However, I don't want that to be me. I don't want to only give during the holidays. I want to give all year long and fall is no different. This month I am going to find a charity I have never donated to before, and do so. I am actually looking to sponsor a child through world vision and that is something I've never done before.

I have been told I am to pick 5 blogs to tag and see if they have Five Fall Goals they'd share with us.



Be sure to stay tuned this week as tomorrow starts the 1st post of a week long reflection of all things wedding in honor of my 6 months of marriage anniversary! :) I can not believe it has been 6 months already! Where does time go?!

Oh, and I updated my pet blog, 4Paws4Love, yesterday. If you have cats or dogs, it's a must read on the reality of microchipping! And Monday I will be posting a special post about my dear Chico since it'll be his 5 year birthday. AWW!



Saturday, October 15, 2011

It's all in the day.

We all have days that are forever etched in our memory. Some good, some bad, some happy, some sad, and some are just plain scary. Today I want to share with you what October 15th is to my cousin, Kristy.



"Everything can change in the matter of a day, actually, in a matter of one split second. October 15 was a big change for me. Three years ago today is the day I became an open heart survivor. I was actually knocked out from the day before because of an attempt to remove my spleen. I found this out after the fact when I asked Tony why I couldn’t remember going down for this surgery.


What I do remember was how scared I was. “Was I going to wake up? Is this it for me?”


I got one of the best feelings ever when I opened my eyes and my family was there waiting for me, and playing charades with me because I had tubes down my throat and was not able to talk.
There I was, lying in a hospital bed and I could see the fear in everyone’s face. “What are you afraid of? I am okay!” I tried screaming this but all I could do was lay there and look up at them.


Recently my little cousin asked me if I could remember what I kept trying to tell them during our game of charades. Besides wanting to tell them I was okay, I don’t remember.


What I do remember is the tube in my throat and how annoyed I was because I wanted it out.


I also remember there were a lot of them in the room. Normally you’re supposed to have no more than 3 visitors and I had 8-10 at once! It seemed like they just got there and they were told they had to leave.


I remembering feeling a panic come over me. I couldn’t say I love you or kiss them goodbye. I remember feeling the “what if” moment again. “What if this is the last time they see me?” I wanted so badly to tell them I was okay and that I love them. All I wanted was them to take the tube out of my throat so I could tell them just how much I love them.


THAT was my October 15th, 2008. October 15th 2009 was another life changing day for me. That was the day I found out that my sister was dying. She passed on October 23rd 2009. It’s amazing just how unpredictable life is, and how everything can change in a matter of a second. And certain days become etched in our memories forever. That is October 15th for me."


just one of Kristy's many scars or battle wounds as she calls them




my cousin visiting her sister <3




My cousin Kristy is one of the strongest young women I know. She has been through more surgeries and health complications in the past four years that most will in their life time. She is only 30 and in end renal failure with a desperate need for a kidney. If you've never read her situation please take a moment to visit her Kidney for Kristy giveforward page. She is also on facebook if you'd like to follow her progress there.


Isn't amazing how one seemingly ordinary day for us can be something so extraordinary for someone else? 


Everyone has a story. 




This is one of those reasons why it's so important to greet each person you encounter (strangers or not) with a smile. You never know their story. Just because they are walking around with a smile on their face doesn't mean that on the inside they aren't healing from some event in their own life (and most likely they are). Maybe today marks the anniversary of a sad time in their life, you just don't know. BUT, what I do know is that an act as simple as a  smile can brighten someones day. Remember this as you go on with your day to day plans. 




Thank the Lord for what you HAVE. Trust the Lord for what you NEED.